Oaks of REFUGE COACHING
Grow. Transform. Bloom.
Life’s storms can leave us feeling battered and lost. At Oaks of Refuge, we’re not just a haven from the wind and rain – we’re the soil in which you can re-root, the sunlight that nourishes your growth, and the open sky where you can finally spread your wings.
Life Coaching
Unlocking your potential and soaring towards your best self, with a supportive guide by your side.
Career Building
Work-life balance: achieving harmony and avoiding burnout.
Family Session
Parenting challenges: setting boundaries, fostering healthy independence, and managing transitions.
HOPE FOR YOU
Live with Clarity, Confidence, and Joy
A Shelter for Growth, Guiding to Transformation.
- Find Your Focus
- Take Control
- Embrace Growth
A PLACE OF REFUGE
Find Peace Through Coaching
Relationship Coaching
Biblical coaching guides relationships using Christian values.
Your Life Destination
Life destinations help individuals find their purpose and create a plan to reach their goals.
Stress Management
Stress management helps you develop strategies to cope with and reduce anxiety.
Betrayal Of Trauma Coaching
Betrayal trauma support helps individuals heal from the emotional wounds caused by a trusted person's violation.
MARRIAGE INTENSIVE
What is a Marriage Intensive? Who is it for?
XO Marriage Intensives are concentrated sessions combining biblically-based guidance with focused techniques to provide couples with immediate support and tools for long-term relationship restoration.
For over 15 years, we have invested and worked with couples in their marriage. Regardless of what you're going through, communication, sexual intimacy, or personality differences, we want to help you. We provide 2- day Pre Marriage Intensives and 2 - day Marriage Intensives.
Our marriage intensives are an extended time (8 hours per day) to equip your relationship with marriage experts Kurt and Kayla Lupo.
Our intensives help you experience breakthrough in your relationship as you’ll be equipped to conquer conflict and improve communication.
The Lupos will walk you through a 96 page guidebook that becomes your roadmap to build intimacy and achieve restoration in your marriage.
As Certified XO Mediators, The Lupos are trained to work one-on-one with you in a private and confidential environment, whether in-person or virtually.
**We are not counselors. We do not diagnose or treat couples who struggle with abuse, addiction, or mental health issues. We highly suggest seeing a professional therapist if you are battling these issues.
About Me
Stop Feeling Lost, Let Us Set Your Feet On A Different Path
Marriage therapist and coach, passionate about helping couples and families thrive. Expertise in Gottman Method, pre-marriage counseling, betrayal trauma, and family dynamics. Let’s build strong, fulfilling relationships together.
I hold a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from The King’s University, where I honed my skills in understanding the intricacies of human relationships. Committed to staying at the forefront of my field, I have completed the prestigious Gottman Level 1, equipping me with evidence-based strategies to help couples navigate the challenges they face.
Currently an APSAT trainee, I am also dedicated to addressing the unique needs of individuals and couples affected by betrayal trauma. This specialized training enables me to provide a compassionate and informed approach to healing.
Healing & Hope Coach
KAYLA
LUPO
Resourses
Online Resources
The Gottman Institute
- What they do: The Gottman Institute uses research to help couples build stronger, happier relationships.
- How they do it: They offer workshops, books, and therapy methods based on their studies of healthy relationships.
- Who they help: Couples seeking better communication, intimacy, and ways to manage conflict. They also train therapists in their methods.
The National Healthy Marriage Resource Center
- It’s a resource center for healthy relationships, offering advice, research, and programs to help couples build strong connections.
- They support couples at all stages (dating, engaged, married) and those who teach couples relationship skills.
Focus On The Family
- Who they are: They are a global Christian ministry with a focus on traditional families
- What they do: They provide resources and support to help couples build strong marriages and parents raise their children according to biblical principles. This includes offering articles, broadcasts, and other materials based on their interpretation of the Bible.
Contact
Get In Touch
We’re here for you! Let’s chat about how we can support your journey.
Address
250 Williford St. Fairfield, TX 75840
Phone
(903) 308-0191
kaylalupo.counseling@gmail.com
"Our marriage was on the brink, but the intensive helped us uncover hidden issues and build a stronger foundation for communication. It felt intense, but in the best way possible."
S&D Client